The discovery of the female G-spot caused a real stir, although no one is yet convinced that it exists. At the same time, only a few people know about a similar area for men, but every guy certainly has one and finding it is much easier. All you need is good lube and gentle fingers. And of course you have to have absolute trust, because not every girl has access to the most intimate things.
Where is the G-spot in men?
Unlike women, who have to search for a mysterious area literally at random, guys don't have to guess about its location. The "G" spot in men, the famous hiding place of the prostate, is located on the anterior wall of the rectum, about 5 cm from the anus. To the touch, it resembles a tuber the size of a walnut or chestnut, and when irritated it swells.
To find a man's G-spot, it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also affect sensitive areas from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, about midway between the perineum (usually hairless in this area). For some guys, the erogenous zone may shift slightly to the left or right. To find it, you can ask your spouse or girlfriend to stroke the perineum with their tongue. From the outside, the prostate can be felt as an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men like to caress their G-spot?
The sensations caused by prostate stimulation can vary widely. Some guys experience incredible pleasure (literally - to the point of tears), for others it helps maintain arousal, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems hardsuffering and even pain. But it's definitely worth a try so as not to deprive your man of a special experience. The main thing is to act carefully and slowly, without sudden movements or use of force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation in this area is to test it during masturbation:
- By applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and anus just before ejaculation, release can be delayed.
- The impact during this process will push more blood into the penis, making its pulsation stronger and more pleasurable.
- Strong rhythmic pressure simulates the contractions of the prostate, increasing the intensity of the final orgasmic phase.
- To achieve greater pleasure, the G-spot should be stroked at the moment of achieving maximum erection, as soon as the penile body swells along its entire length. If the feeling is uncomfortable or difficult to notice, you should wait a bit. If at the moment of complete arousal there is still no reaction, perhaps this area in a particular man is not considered sexually stimulated. In this case, it's better to focus on stroking the scrotum and penis, or come back to explore that area later.
How to properly stimulate men's G-spot?
If the other person feels confused or uncertain, the first attempt may not be successful. But maybe further research will bring more pleasure if people can actually liberate themselves. Help in such games will be special devices (finger attachments, vibrating bullets, small vibrators), which are widely available in adult stores. You can caress your g-spot in at least two ways:
- From inside. The finger or toy must be thoroughly lubricated with lubricant and then inserted 5 cm or more into the anus, moving in the direction of the pubic bone. You can find the sensitive "g" spot on the tuberosity on the rectal wall. And then you need to massage carefully, observing the man's reaction.
- Outside. Here you can perform stimulation in two ways - with your mouth or with your hands. A man will enjoy touching the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which can be interspersed with passionate kisses. When stroking with your hands, the gentle water-based lubricant will help improve sliding and give your partner more pleasure. You need to massage this area with the pads of your fingers, using circular movements and light pressure.
When you reach orgasm, the G-spot will vibrate. To enhance pleasure, you need to influence it promptly with contractions. Followers of Eastern teachings claim that in this way you can delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this regard, the male G-zone is called the "million dollar spot" and sexologists have developed special techniques to delay ejaculation. Such exercises will be helpful for sexual dysfunction.
Is caressing the G-spot beneficial for men?
In fact, stimulation of this area can be compared to a gentle prostate massage. Only the latter is performed in a medical facility and does not always bring pleasant feelings, causing men to associate it with negativity and confusion. Caressing the sensual G-spot in a romantic setting is a completely different matter: both the atmosphere and the presence of a loved one are conducive to pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and bring more intimate overtones to them.
In terms of health benefits, regularly stroking the prostate will be a good preventative measure for diseases of the male genital organs. But only under the current condition that there are no pathologies on this side and the massage is performed gently, without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
The prostate area should not be affected if men suffer from chronic and acute diseases of the reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, prostatic hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urinary disorders, hemorrhoids, anal fissure, etc. v. Use mild oral stimulation, excluding anal and manual G-spot massage.